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or nothing about it and have decided to learn, you couldn't
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others and how to react ... in a positive and assertive
way." GK, Basildon
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I have also improved on my working........ SC, London
"I am now equipped with information that I will put
in practice in my daily life … thank you Debbie."
LV, Chelmsford
"I now know and understand how to handle certain
situations, what to do without feeling that it's always
my fault." JB, Braintree
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Welcome to NLP Leader the site that offers you the opportunity
to find out more about the powerful tools.
Have
you considered how NLP could help you in understanding
and achieving what you want with other people?
At NLP Leader we bring you NLP
opportunities - opportunities to learn, develop skills
and fulfil your potential.
NLP
Champion
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Just
image how much more effective you could be communicating
better with people.
NLP
training could help you develop the necessary skills.
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The key is that if you
want to communicate with and influence others
more effectively the first step is to understand
what is important to them.
We each have our
own perception of reality which is different
from everyone else as we all experience
the world through our senses. You see/feel/hear
things differently to anyone else because
you filter all information through the memories
of your previous experiences. Because our
perception is only an approximation of the
real world, it can be quite limited. As
a result, our decisions and our behaviour
can also be limited.
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"With a deeper awareness of how the
mind works and how it affects behaviour,
you can unlock your own capabilities
and your ability to influence others."
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In
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) language
this means you have a different 'map' to anyone
else - imagine you were planning to travel
from London to Brighton, not only could you
choose to take a different route to someone
else, you could have a different start and
end point, and the map you were looking at
could be different, depending on who had drawn
it. As we all get to draw our own 'map' your
map can be very different from mine.
When working, and indeed living, with other
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that they will have a different 'map' to us
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To
truly have a chance at understanding what others
are communicating, you need to gain an understanding
of the way other people are processing and using
information.
With
NLP Leader you can undertake a number of Certified
Professional Programmes in NLP
All the courses
provide a focused approach on exactly what
you need to know to make NLP work effectively
for you.
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NLP helps us understand how people
are different. We all have a preferred system through
which we code our memories and experiences. Without
us being consciously aware of it, our five senses of
seeing, hearing, feeling, tasting and smelling are constantly
receiving and processing information about the world
around and within us. In NLP, we call these our representational
systems.
By understanding how we perceive the world through our
five senses, we can then understand how some people
can respond very resourcefully in a situation and others
do not. NLP models have been used to learn how those
who remain resourceful set up their representations.
This information can then be used to help you to learn
how to also be resourceful.
NLP helps to provides clues or signals that we can use
to establish what a person is doing internally and therefore
which senses or combinations of senses they are paying
attention to. This gives us a valuable insight into
how their mind is working.
Also, by realising that people do things because they
see them as important - and not just to spite us - we
become more open and flexible. This helps us to empathise
and put ourselves in the other person's shoes.
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NLP was initially created in the
1970s by linguist Dr. John Grinder and computer scientist
and Gestalt therapist Dr. Richard Bandler.
It started as a study into how psychotherapists and excellent
communicators achieved results. Together Bandler and Grinder
produced a linguistic model that identified the language
patterns of a few gifted individuals such as Hypnotherapist:
Milton Erickson, Gestalt Therapy: Fritz Perls, Anthropologist:
Gregory Bateson and Family Therapy: Virginia Satir.
The study was originally undertaken to develop a set of
techniques that would help therapists to become more effective.
However NLP soon became a toolbox for improving interpersonal
communication and its application spread to other fields.
In the 20+ years since it was first developed, NLP has
grown, changed and expanded, and it continues to do so
today. The term NLP
is made up of:
Neuro means the nervous
system (or mind) through which you process your experiences
via your five senses.
Linguistic is the language
system through which you code and give meaning to your
experiences.
Programming refers
to the automatic programmes that you run in response
to events around you - how we get the results we want
for ourselves and others.
Please contact us for further
information regarding the next available course on:
Tel: +44 (0) 5600 280 485
Email: debbie@cole-wilde.co.uk
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